The three ways a Living Will can make you a better parent.

3 Ways a Living Will (1)A Living Will is legal document that ensures that end-of-life decisions are made according to your wishes when, for example, you are on a ventilator with no little or no quality of life and no reasonable chance of survival.

As parents we eat stress for breakfast.  Our schedules are jam packed, overloaded and leave little room for long term planning.  When we do have a break from the madness we spend our time with those we love and care about most.

As we move through life, we take on more responsibilities, as do our children. For them, one day their responsibility will be you. For most of us, this is a difficult pill to swallow. That there will come a time expected or unexpected when your daughter, son or partner will need to take care of you.

Enjoying life to the fullest means setting aside tomorrow’s worries you and your family may have as best you can, so that you can be present in their world today.  A Living Will can help you do just that.

By outlining your goals for your estate and legacy, you can lift that burden from your family members. Imagine what it would be like to be distraught, or scattered by an unexpected accident or illness.  Think for a moment about having to act on the behalf of a loved one in a time when emotions are raw, during a time of illness or hardship … and you were not given any directions. You are at a loss for words, cannot think straight and haven’t a clue what that person really, really wanted. Financial questions circling around you, a task list to coordinate and execute mounts.  This is not a time when you want to feel that you’ve been left in the dark.

That is just the place where so many families find themselves.  Left to guess and decide the proper course of action for a loved one who in the midst of a busy life … and who forgot to leave a plan, or even notes.

Being a good parent means planning for your family’s future, including yours.  Don’t leave things to chance or speculation.  Put a Living Will in place, and soon you will feel a cloud of stress clear, a stressor that you did not recognize was hanging over you.

A Living Will can make you a better parent by tackling these three difficult decision areas:

#1. Express your preference regarding life-sustaining treatment for end-of-life medical decisions.

No one can predict the future, or the circumstances surrounding an event or incident.  Thinking through potential situations, and what would be best for your family now with a clear-headed state of mind, is much easier than making decisions while approaching medical treatment options in the midst of a catastrophic injury or illness.

#2.  Give your family peace of mind that your desires will be followed.

In times when emotions run high, unanswered questions about your personal wishes can easily cause for distraught family members to disagree about options for your care in end-of-life circumstances.  You can express your desire, in advance, and take the burden off your family by executing Living Will.

#3.  Prevent your assets from being depleted by life-sustaining medical treatment during end end-of-life medical care.  

Providing financial stability for your family after you’re gone is something you have planned for your whole life. You can document and express the parameters and circumstances in which you would in good conscious choose to discontinue aggressive medical care.

I know this can be overwhelming to think about and especially daunting if today you are happily surrounded by your family and in good health.  We all hope that every day is one that we can live life to the fullest.  We all want our family to be protected, financially and emotionally.  Creating a plan where you can ensure sensible and well documented guidance through one of life’s biggest challenges is a duty you owe to your loved ones and to yourself.

If you don’t know where to start, what to ask, or how to begin, I am here to help.  My clients are like family, as are members of their families.  To find out more about a Living Will as an estate planning tool, please contact me and we can talk.  Connect with me via any of the vehicles below, and I’ll be happy to make time to listen to you and answer your questions.

 

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Michael Calogero, a lawyer’s story.

photoYour life’s work includes your job or your business; you work to build a foundation for your family and a legacy that provides peace of mind for you and security for your family.  Along the way, life happens and sometimes you need a professional, a lawyer you can trust, to consult or for representation to protect your interests.

Michael Calogero is a rare attorney, licensed in Louisiana, whose passion for more than 20 years has been to serve people like you – individuals, families, and small business owners.   Michael’s integrity and desire to serve is part of his family values, instilled in him by his father, Pascal F. Calogero, Jr., a lawyer, jurist & public servant who knows what true service is all about.

Growing up in New Orleans, Michael watched his father as a lawyer in private practice who was elevated to serving as a Louisiana Supreme Court Justice, a pure jurist with a servant’s heart, a student of the law who has made a significant impact on the legal profession beginning in 1972 and serving for more than 36 years, including 18 years as head of the judiciary for this State.

Values – respect and human dignity of every person; compassion and empathy; hard work; commitment to excellence; these are just some foundational beliefs Michael learned growing up. He knew that he wanted to serve and to guard the rights of people in the community. His journey into the legal profession began in a Gentilly neighborhood in New Orleans, at Brother Martin High School with the Brothers of the Sacred Heart.  Michael was a recipient of a Golden Crusader Award, given to those who exemplify the spirit of the Brother Martin community – service for the good of others.

Michael attended Louisiana State University in Baton Rouge where he earned a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration. He learned business principles which he later applied in practice with his business clients – managing risk and fostering growth.

After graduating from LSU, Michael worked in local government, further preparing him for the law.  In 1990, he enrolled in the Loyola University College of Law night program; he worked full-time while attending law school. Michael’s intellect and commitment to learning was evident; he completed law school in December of 1993 as a member of the Alpha Sigma Nu National Honor Society, a member of the Loyola Law Review, and placement in the top 3% of his class.

After becoming licensed by passing the Louisiana Bar Exam in 1994, Michael jumped into private practice, worked with a reputable, local law firm where he gained valuable experience representing injured individuals with legal rights to compensation afforded by law. In the personal injury litigation forum, Michael was equipped with hands-on experience as an advocate of individuals, a champion of worthy causes.

His passion for service was ignited; after 3 ½ years as an associate, Michael was equipped and prepared to strike out on his own.  In January 1998, he founded the Law Office of Michael G. Calogero, LLC.  Just as much an entrepreneur as an attorney, Michael set up his law practice and continued to serve his clients.  His tenure in local government had shown him the need for true, caring and thoughtful service to people in his community.  Michael has served numerous clients – individuals, families & businesses in Louisiana, in both state court and federal court.

Michael approaches every client and their loved ones as if they were family.  With clients who face difficult circumstances, he addresses the story of the client and any personal concerns then he assists in setting practical goals and objectives for each client he represents. He pays close attention to the expressed needs, listens to the facts, hopes, wishes and dreams for the future, some on the verge of being jeopardized or shattered.

Michael offers compassion, empathy and solid judgment, based on the law and equity. This is what sets Michael apart. His clients get the feeling that instead of talking to an attorney they are cared for like family or like a next door neighbor over the hedge of the lawn.  This type of comfortable atmosphere and clear line of open communication create a strong relationship of trust and commitment between Michael and his clients.

Often thinking outside the box and responding to clients’ goals with practical solutions, Michael is an advocate, a leader who is more than capable of assessing, clarifying and explaining the law and options, in common sense language.  It is part of his daily work, and Michael relishes his role as counselor, advocate and consummate professional who is here to help.

If you have been hesitant to plan for your family’s future, address a business need, or outline how your legacy should live on, Michael is here to listen. Not to talk at you, not to overwhelm you with legal jargon, not to give you cookie cutter solutions.  But, rather, to sit and listen … and to learn about your history, journey, dreams, goals and priorities.

Michael’s goal is to help you protect and plan for your future in the same way his father helped so many as he grew up.  So, when you are ready, he’ll be here – to listen, to talk and to share his insights and assessments.  Here are some comments from some of Michael’s clients:

“Your memory and attention to detail is nothing short of remarkable.  Your work ethic is most impressive. There have been times when you have returned my phone calls at hours when I didn’t even think people were still awake much less still working. I would recommend Michael’s legal services to anyone who is looking for an attorney who truly is concerned about their personal matters as much as they are.”  - Bob F.

The first time I sat down for a legal consultation with Michael Calogero, he listened and wrote.  He would ask questions and he would write.  I find his ability to focus in on any dynamic of my case with such assertiveness rather amazing.  Michael will regularly call to keep me informed of updates involving my case.  I know for sure he has spent many Saturdays and Sundays working on my case as well as many late nights.  It is this passion and effort along with great intelligence that Michael Calogero displays that keeps me confident that my family and I are in good hands.  I am thankful that he understands the impact of our case on me and my family.”   - Edward L.

“Michael has handled all of my legal needs very compassionately, efficiently and has guided me through the always confusing legal process that can be frustrating to the average person. He has always returned my calls when needed never avoiding the hard questions and explaining things to me as to help me make the correct decisions. I would highly recommend him as an attorney for all needs he will serve you well.” -Don C.

“It was a pleasure working with Michael Calogero in the representation of my cousin as his attorney because of his knowledge concerning the legal matter.  In my eyes, he is an expert in legal proceedings, he kept us informed of all proceedings and we fully trusted his judgment and expertise.  I would proudly recommend family and friends to experience his commitment to service.  I’m thankful for everything he has done.”  - Cathy B.

“Every now and then you meet the right person, in this case, the right professional, who does just the right thing at just the right time … in the nick of time.  Michael Calogero fit that bill for my husband and I.  We feel that he was able to develop, legally, the documents needed to protect us … He analyzed the documents we presented along with what we spoke about … if we need him we know he will be there and that his judgment and his knowledge and research of the law will protect us.”  - Joan S. and Gil S.

Whether (1) you have been injured and need an advocate to fight for you; (2) you have experienced the devastating loss of a loved one; (3) you would like to discuss an estate plan for financial stability and asset protection for your family; (4) you are starting a new business or have a need to manage risk, Michael will be there personally to listen. Call (504) 456-8883.

Thank you for sharing your precious time with us. Please know that if you need a sounding board, a confidant, some sound advice from a friend across the hedge, Michael is here to help.

 

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The three reasons you should have a Power of Attorney document.

The 3 Reasons for having a Power of Attorney

It’s not fun to think about situations when you might not be at your best. Injury, unexpected illness, or an accident can catch you and your family off-guard.  While this is a reality, it is not pleasant or comfortable to think that this can happen to you, but it can so you should be prepared in the event that it does happen.

Being prepared for life’s curve-balls is a duty you owe to yourself and your family. There are a host of documents that can provide some protection and planning for your family without a lot of work or expense.

Here are the top three reasons why you should prepare a Power of Attorney document for yourself, your spouse, or other family members.

#1 – Trust

Trust is at the core of almost all estate planning decisions.  Appointing someone to serve as your agent, who knows you well, is important and considerable thought should be given before deciding who is best to speak for you when you can’t make decisions for yourself.  Choose someone who is familiar with your passions, goals, priorities and values.  This person should be someone who you know will always act in the best interests of you and your family.

#2 – Your Health is an Unknown 

Without going through the cost and planning of an entire estate plan, designating a trusted confidant as your agent in a Power of Attorney document is a great way to ensure decisions can be made when you are not able to do so due to health reasons.  You never know when a routine surgery doesn’t go according to plan, or you are rendered unconscious or unable to communicate after an accident.  A Power of Attorney document is usually the most cost effective first step to plan for any potential health related decision making issues.

#3 – Decisions Surrounding Surgery or Medical Treatment

When you are sick, medicated or unable to communicate due to a medical issue, who will be your voice? Who knows how you feel about your medical treatment, surgery or complex procedures?  Whether a family member or friend, this person will be legally allowed not only to see you but to make decisions on your behalf.  Power of Attorney, in that moment, can be what saves your life.  The person you designate as your agent can serve as your medical liaison and will have the ability to visit you in the hospital, act on your behalf, and lobby for additional medical treatment options. Your agent will be your voice when you are not able to speak for yourself.   Something that may be hard to fathom now could be a life-saver later.

How do I know if a Power of Attorney is right for me?

There are two different types of Power of Attorney: General and Special.  In a General Power of Attorney, you designate someone as your agent to step in when you are unable to make decisions for yourself, whether it is medical, financial or any other decisions in your best interests.  And, it only goes into effect when you are unable to make decisions for yourself.  In a Special Power of Attorney, you designate an agent who can perform a specific act on your behalf such as to attend an Act of Sale in your absence. And, like a General Power or Attorney, it only goes into effect when a specified situation occurs.

To find out which is right for you, please reach out and let’s talk.  With a Power of Attorney for yourself or your loved one, you can take an active step to protect your best interests.  You can reach me via any of the vehicles below, and I’ll be happy to make myself available to listen to you and to answer your questions.

 

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Legal Questions or Concerns? Know Your Rights.

For over 20 years, I have had the privilege of helping and representing a lot of clients.  If you have legal questions or concerns about a matter, know that I am available to give you specific answers to your questions about the law and your legal rights.

If you’re not a lawyer, when it comes to a legal matter you may have more questions than answers. This is completely understandable, and I can help you to better understand legal issues. Sometimes, the legal system can seem intimidating or confusing. With a better understanding of the law and your legal rights, you can weigh your options and make prudent, informed decisions.

It all begins with you.  Most importantly, I listen to understand your questions and concerns then provide advice regarding your options.  If requested, I can help you to develop a strategy moving forward.  The more I understand your goals and objectives, the better I can help.

Whatever you share with me remains confidential.  Once you speak with me as an attorney, I am not permitted to discuss any details of our conversation with anyone else without your permission. Whether or not we work together in an attorney/client relationship, I cannot and do not disclose anything that you choose to share with me.

I do not make unrealistic promises or guarantee a result.  Rather, it is important that you know the legal issues and possible outcomes, based on the facts and the law.  We can discuss realistic and attainable goals, and you will be able to make informed decisions and take a measured approach, a prudent course of action.

If you’re looking for an experienced, competent and hard working lawyer with a strong background and a commitment to prompt and courteous legal service, then we will likely work well together.

If you need reliable information about a legal issue or your legal rights, give me a call.  If you have a timely problem that you need help with now, call me immediately and I will personally be available to discuss your concerns. You can contact me directly at (504) 456-8683, toll free at (877) 556-8683, by email at michael@calogerolaw.com.

If you don’t have a legal problem at the moment, you may provide me with your email address and I’ll be glad to provide you with information that may be helpful to you in the future.

Periodically, I provide free tips about common legal issues and information regarding common concerns of people like you.  If you would like to receive free information and helpful legal tips, please provide me with your email address below.